As women, we often maintain a love-hate relationship with clothes. We all love outfits that make us feel gorgeous... but so often, we think our clothes do the opposite. From thinking we look fat to assuming we can't wear a certain shape or color, we drag our insecurities into our closets and dressing rooms every day.
But wouldn't getting dressed be so much better if we didn't? So we're going out on a limb and challenging ourselves to banish these sentences from our fashion experiences. Here are 6 things that we should stop saying when we're getting dressed.
"Does this make me look fat?" No, it doesn't. An outfit can't give you a body you don't have. It may be unflattering, but that's not reason to think there's something wrong with your body -- it's just a reason to try a different outfit.
"I can't wear halters -- I've got man shoulders." Or "I can't wear skirts because my calves are huge." Or, "I can't wear tank tops because my arms are chubby." Stop focusing on the negative and wear what you want to wear. If you feel good in it, wear it, no matter what size your limbs are.
"This would look better on someone with smaller hips." Or smaller breasts. Or bigger breasts. That may or may not be true, but unfortunately you can't change your body shape as easily as you can swap that size 6 for a size 8. Just try a different size or a different cut -- that's a lot easier (and more productive) than day-dreaming about changing bodies with a skinnier friend.
"I'm too old to wear this." As well-dressed women such as Helen Mirren, Susan Sarandon and Meryl Streep have proven, age does not dictate style. If you feel comfortable in a tank top and like the way you look, go for it. If you love that asymmetrical hem dress, try it out -- if you feel good in it, it probably looks good.
"It would fit if I just lost weight." That might be true, but it just means you're wearing the wrong size. Clothing isn't there to shame you or make you feel bad about yourself -- on the contrary, it should make you feel good. So stop obsessing in a too-small size and embrace something that truly fits.
"I can't wear this color." Or "This color washes me out." Or "I need a tan to wear this." It's true that there are some colors that are more or less flattering on certain skin tones, but don't feel hemmed in to segments of the rainbow. Love orange? Try a burnt orange rather than a neon. You can probably wear more colors than you think.
When in doubt, just try these:
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1. White Button-Down Shirts
A <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/18/classic-white-shirt-women_n_1211536.html">white button-down shirt</a> always looks fresh, clean and polished.
2. Wrap Dresses
The most figure-flattering dress ever (<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/09/diane-von-furstenberg-wra_n_2103096.html">thanks, DVF</a>) looks good on all body types and does wonders to show off the female shape.
3. Trench Coats
The <a href="http://videos.huffingtonpost.com/entertainment/60-second-style-trench-coat-challenge-51049539">trench coat</a> is a staple in every woman's wardrobe because it works year-round. It's versatility and great fit make it the perfect option.
4. Black Pumps
Few things are sexier than a <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/08/womens-pumps-shoes-heels_n_1719752.html">woman in heels.</a> Black pumps work well because they lengthen the leg, and the sleek color amps up the affect.
5. Sunglasses
Provided you <a href="http://videos.huffingtonpost.com/entertainment/how-to-choose-glasses-for-your-face-shape-142093317">find the right shape for your face</a> (be it square, rounded or aviator style), sunglasses can completely finish off just about any casual ensemble.
6. Shift Dresses
The shape of this dress works on <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/29/best-for-your-body-black-dress_n_1119417.html">almost all shapes</a>. The relaxed fit along with the body-skimming silhouette highlight and hide all the right spots.
7. Monochromatic Outfits
<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/22/monochromatic-style_n_1518318.html">A single color palette </a>always looks great as it elongates the body and is so sophisticated.
8. Statement Necklaces
Whether you choose to wear a <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/30/statement-necklaces-huge-jewelry-celebrity-style_n_1628571.html">statement necklace</a> with a fancy dress, a blouse or just a casual T-shirt, it can take your outfit to another level.
9. Natural Hair Color
Although a trip to your colorist can brighten up your face in the winter or make your eyes pop, every girl looks good in what her mama gave her.
10. Blush
The right shade can do wonders to accentuate (or create) any woman's cheekbones.
11. Red lipstick
If you find the right shade for your skin tone, <a href="http://www.refinery29.com/red-lipstick">red lips</a> can turn any sweetheart into a heartbreaker -- instantly.
12. Fake Eyelashes
<a href="http://videos.huffingtonpost.com/tech/how-to-apply-fake-eyelashes-516980574">Fake eyelashes</a> make your eyes pop and add a little something extra for an evening out.
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