EDMONTON - Q: When I see the dress code listed on an invitation, I’m never quite sure what’s required.
A: For many years people have come to me to ask questions on event planning, travel, fashion, etiquette; basically, lifestyle inquiries. I have often thought it would be fun to have an outlet to answer some of these questions on a broader scale. Thanks to the Edmonton Journal, we have partnered to create this venue.
As it’s the festive season of social functions, let me offer some clarification on dress codes. One of my pet peeves is to show up to a function and people have not followed what was asked of them as far as their attire.
So here are some basic rules to follow when invited to your next soiree. Cocktail for men can mean everything from dress pants/dress shirt (collar/long sleeves) to a suit, and dress pants/blouse to a cocktail dress for women. This style of dress code can also be listed as formal on your invitation, but if you follow these rules you’ll be fine. Black tie for men means a tuxedo and an evening dress for women (cocktail length or long). White tie for men means white formal shirt, white bow tie, white vest, and black tails. For women, this means a long evening or ball gown.
The one thing that will be important for both men and women when dressing for these events is your shoes; the ability to accessorize is what sets us apart from the animals!
Men: Make sure you have nice, modern dress shoes for occasions where the dress code indicates cocktail and tuxedo shoes for your black tie and white tie functions. Try to think outside the box when buying your evening shoes. Don’t go to a rental shop. Go to places like B2 or Browns for your up-to-date look in evening footwear.
Women: Don’t even think about showing up at a formal function in flats. Nothing ruins the lines of your outfit, not to mention your legs, like practical footwear at a glitzy affair. And yes, heels can be comfortable. Just make sure that you invest in good heels that fit you properly; I have sworn testimony that they are out there.
Sometimes the invitation won’t indicate what the dress code is. Never assume what it is; check to find out. You don’t want to feel uncomfortable because you are in the wrong attire.
And just because the invite says gala, don’t assume it’s formal. If in doubt, find out.
I hope this gives you some direction on what to wear to your next function. Should you have other lifestyle questions, email randall@randallmacdonald.com[1] and look for your answer in future columns.
Randall MacDonald’s creative outlets include a radio show, freelance writing, interior design, event planning, and being co-owner of Call the Kettle Black. E-mail your lifestyle questions to randall@randallmacdonald.com[2] or find out more at randallmacDonald.com .[3]
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